FAQ
Do I need a Doula if my partner will be with me?
Your partner with be your main support person during their labor but he/she may not know what to expect in labor. Even partner’s who take childbirth education classes may not be fully prepared to help a laboring women throughout her the long labor and delivery process.
It is sometimes difficult for partner’s to see the laboring women having discomfort and not being able to help her with it. Doulas are trained to help the laboring mom and her partner understand the normal stages and phases of labor and suggest comfort techniques to help partner comfort her.
The Doula and the partner work together throughout the labor and delivery process to provide continuous support that the laboring mother needs.
Doulas do not take the place of partner; they enhance the birth experience for all involved and let the partner participate at the level they feel comfortable at.
If I have an epidural do I need a Doula?
Yes, a Doula can help support you even if you are comfortable. Doulas support you by answering questions and reminding you to rest, breathe and move to help your baby in labor. A Doula is also your advocate and can help you with questions and concerns that arise as well as making sure that you and your partner are comfortable and relaxed.
Epidurals do not always work as planned and sometimes when you are ready to have your epidural the anesthesiologist is unavailable and you may have to wait to get some relief. A Doula can help you through those challenging times. When you are 10cm your Doula will help you with pushing and directing you on breathing and positions to help you find the most effective way to deliver your child. Your Doula will remain with you throughout your labor and birth as well as the immediate postpartum period to give you support and help with breastfeeding.
I am having a planned Cesarean Birth; why do I need a Doula?
A Doula can help support you and your partner before the procedure by using relaxation techniques, massage, guided imagery and breathing techniques. Some hospitals allow more than one support person in the operating room so your Doula could help support you in surgery also.
After your cesarean your Doula can come into the recovery room and help you with breastfeeding and comfort. Doulas can answer questions and concerns and help you talk with hospital staff to make sure all of your needs are being met and you are comfortable.
When you are in your postpartum room your Doula can help you and your partner settle in or stay with you if your partner needs to get something to eat or attend to other matters. Doulas can answer basic baby care questions and explain to you what your newborn will be like the next few days in the hospital and what to expect.